How I Learned To Be Dominated

I don’t think anyone can accuse me of being unadventurous in bed. I love learning about new fetishes and kinks and seeing if they’re something that I enjoy. To be honest though I’m really not a very kinky person. It can be fun to tie someone up or get out a paddle but it has never been something that I love.

However, more recently I’ve started to explore my submissive side. It wasn’t something I planned or even consciously did but I think we’re all drawn to people that compliment us and that is how my submissive nature was uncovered.

Domination and submission require a lot of trust. You can’t give yourself to a person until you have built that trust with them. I was lucky enough to meet someone who was experienced in the dom/sub relationship. Over the course of our dates, we naturally fell into the roles of dom and sub. This started off quite mildly, with a bit of dirty talk and direction. I found that I loved having somebody else control the situation and I enjoyed doing as I was told. 

Over time we built up an element of trust. I knew he was feeling things out and trusted him to stop doing something if I was uncomfortable with it. This is the key to having that kind of relationship, in my opinion. Our dates became more physical with spankings and hair pulling and pinching and scratching. Always considered and never taken too far. I enjoyed being told I was dirty and being told what to say and do. If I said the wrong thing or didn’t do as I was told, I knew I would be punished.

I’m eager to please and so this role came naturally to me. I was lucky that I had an experienced mentor. I love trying this sort of power play with all kinds of gentlemen but it is very important that we build up trust and slowly create a shared idea of what is good and pleasurable and where the boundaries are. That way we can have an incredible time with a bit of kinky fun! 

Would you like to come and see my submissive side?